I think fedi requires an open mind, or at least, tolerance for the fact that people are going to say things you aren't gonna like, that they will behave in ways you aren't used to, that some people aren't gonna be a good fit for you, and that you're gonna /need/ that block or mute button.
Otherwise, you're setting yourself up for disappointment at best, or pain at worst.
@disco A lot of people avoid interaction with people in general outside a limited group for this reason. The Internet makes it easy to be introverted. It makes it easy to find sheltered corners online.
Fedi is... perhaps not the best place to find a sheltered corner imo unless you find a whitelist instance.
this is mst3k